Becoming an early bird,getting stressed from taking care of everyone which most times doesn’t include ourselves,sacrificing for our loved ones,meeting standards,getting described by degrading terms, being appreciated and accepted because of reason we go beyond possessing,taking care of the home,struggling with menstrual pain which most of the time comes with pre and post menstrual rewards ,the self love battle,the condoning of nonsense from people and not being able to lift a finger just so you stick to the ladylike code,being a mother who struggles to ensure smiles on the faces of her children,preaching about our rights ; one could go on and on about what women face today.
It hurts to know that I am a full package but gets the treatment for a premium package. Well that’s a story that has been shared too many times without its message getting to the hearts of the people and as if that’s not enough we add more problems for ourselves as women by always standing against each other,yes it’s a day to celebrate women but we need to right certain wrongs.
Starting from social media,women have made it a habit to preach messages of self hate,low self esteem and fake love.
How do you live with yourselves at night knowing you just brought down a fellow woman because of a mistake she’s made when you could have offered counsel or her posts on her social media accounts ?(it’s called a personal account for a reason).
Its feels terrible to know that we only support fellow women for the sake of their influence .Woman A is going through a situation same as woman B but because woman B is rich and influential she sees it as ridiculous to share her problems with woman A is lives on a basic salary and wears weaves less than 5k.How do you place a co-woman’s worth on the amount she pays for her hair or her clothes and becoming willing to drown in and with your problem rather than share and get healing?
STOP STOP STOP And stand for each other. Do we really expect men to see us act this way and respect us? Or the growing girls to recognize their worth and know their value?
Women have placed so much importance on material things that most girls have concluded that being confident and accepted only comes when you are riding the latest cars and wearing the most expensive weaves.Screaming wrongly channeled confidence into their blood streams.Most women nowadays feel confidence and high self esteem from their face beat,weaves and cars that by the time they clock 70-80 they question the true meaning of confidence and when they can’t they pass on the baton to their girls and teach their boys to only have eyes for the outwardly perfect woman.
Confidence should come from being able to conquer our fears,accepting our imperfections,helping a fellow human grow,having standards that every woman on earth can tap into.We are all guilty of this and need to change this about ourselves.
PHYSICAL PERFECTION DOESN’T MEAN CONFIDENCE BECAUSE WHEN THAT IS STRIPPED FROM US AND WE CANNOT PREACH CONFIDENCE ANYMORE THEN A PROBLEM HAS BEEN CREATED And WHEN You SEE A WOMAN WHO CAN SHOW CONFIDENCE And KNOWS HER WORTH A PANEL OF BROKEN,THIRSTY FOR SADNESS,A-List LOW SELF ESTEEM WOMEN GATHER TO BRING HER DOWN AND WHEN THEY ARE DONE THEY TURN TO EACH Other AND TEAR THEMSELVES APART AND WATCH MEN TAKE NOTES READY TO FEAST ON US AND THEN WE BLAME THEM FOR DEGRADING US?
I could go on and on about the problems we create for ourselves as women because cyber bullying is just a tip
Sharing a few SoundCloud accounts for female development below and HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY to the woman who never stop lifting their fellow women and to the women living in pain and poverty.We will all get our special healing someday.
Click on the pictures for the direct links….