FINDING RESCUE

Listening to UNREQUITED LOVE BY YUNA: Sometimes you find yourself trying to let go of something
But it’s like you have been swimming in the ocean
For a very very long time
And you feel like you belong there
You are one with the waves
The warmth of the water
And your body moves in sync with the ocean
And you swim around just trying to stay afloat
Then you get tired and you start to drown
And you swim back to land
When you get there you just feel so heavy
Because you lost touch with gravity for so long
And you collapse on the beach
As you try to find balance again
And then your feet finds gravity
You stand up and you look at the horizon one last time
And just know that no matter how beautiful the sea was
And how good it made you feel it was never yours for you to keep
And someday’s you will miss it, you know
And you feel yourself moving with the waves
And you dream of diving in
Then you realize your feet was meant for land
And not cut out for the ocean
Maybe you’re meant to climb trees
Or hike hills or just run really fast
Letting go is not easy
There is nothing quite like swimming in the ocean
Just like how it’s natural for your feet to find gravity
It’s natural for you to let go
And find your true purpose in life again
The sea is the sea
And you are just you
I have to let go
But sometimes I find myself waking up at the beach again
– [ ] ……….”.Yuna(UNREQUITED LOVE)

This song by YUNA is just so inspiring ..Yes it is a love song   but the speech of collapsing at some point of our lives and gaining the courage to get up just got me. Making me realize that as a person we actually have to realize that we need to be the heroes of our own life.
Those habits we can’t let go of ,those people we can’t let go of ,the negativity,the weakness,self doubt,heartbreaks,etc
You stick to great amount of negativity and as time passes by you begin to feel it’s a part of you that’s meant to be there ..No matter how good it makes you feel you should learn to let go ..Yes these habits  or negativity give you some sort of overwhelming satisfaction but then it’s the type of satisfaction that will break you and keep you away from being your true self making you forget the few days you did let go and felt better ,the day you almost found your true purpose but then you ended up right back in your negativity . It’s okay to try and then fall back again but then you are trying no matter how tired you get but all that really matters is that you are trying . Some situations are never meant to be permanent except you let it.
Find your true purpose in life ,let go of the weed,the self doubt,porn stacks,the need for love from those who ignore you and don’t see your worth,self hate ,suicide thoughts,guilt,hatred for God and depression.
Stop drowning yourself on purpose .Self hate is as good as committing suicide.
YOU ARE NEVER FREE IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE COURAGE TOO LET GO OF NEGATIVITY AND LIVE LIFE.CREATE NEW ADVENTURES ,SET MORE GOALS,BE YOU AND IGNORE THE SIDE TALKS .SIT BACK AND WATCH LIFE GET BETTER.
YOU ARE NEVER ALONE IN YOUR STRUGGLES,MORE THAN A BILLION IN THIS WORLD WITH WORST SUTUATIONS BUT IF WE DON’T GROW HOW DO WE HELP OTHERS TO AVOID THE FEELING WE KNOW ALMOST DESTROYED US …
WAKE UP EVERY MORNING SAYING THANK YOU GOD AND HELLO NEGATIVITY NOT TODAY NOT EVER AGAIN.

Everything must go.STOP BEING CONTROLLED BY THE THINGS YOU THINK YOU NEED.DON’T LET THE FIRE GET YOU .BUT IF IT DOES REMEMBER THE KHALEESI CAME OUT STRONGER.STAY STRONG AND NOTHING CAN BREAK YOU.
 

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SKIRT TO TOP TALES

IMG_1046I really missed you guys so much ..So today’s post will be just me sharing this look where I paired my pleated dogtooth mini short skirt with a black trouser and a denim short.I really can’t wear this skirt out so I thought of a better way to wear it hope you like it.

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INSPIRED BY MUSIC 

Sweethearts!!!! How are you all ? (I need to work on my intros😂). So I am here with my Playlist.. Some of you might find it inspiring and amazing because I do while some of you might find it as a regular Playlist but please don’t. They are arranged in no particular order.

  • Problems – Nasty_C ft Erik Rush​
  • Squad goals- Nasty_C ​​
  • Don’t do it – Nasty_C ​
  • Scars to your beautiful – Alessi a Cara​
  • Shana Wilson –  Give me you​
  • Fight song – Rachel Platten​​
  • Unrequited love – YUNA​
  • Purpose – Justin Beiber​
  • Love me too much – Travis Greene​​
  • Conqueror – Empire cast ft Estella and Jussie Smollet
  • To my future wife-Jon Bellion​
     
  • Mirrors – Justin Timberlake ​
  • ELLIE GOULDING – BEATING HEART​
  • IIt’s not over (when God’s in it) – Aaron Lindsey 
  • Pain-Ship Wrek ft Mia Viale​

MUSING:My Future Husband’s Father 

Hey lovely people how are you all doing and hope the weather is good to you?!!!!! 

Well I have decided to share my recent walking on the road kinda thought with you instead of a be yourself post. So I was walking along my street when I saw this guy really scolding a lady who I think was his girlfriend, talking about how unpretty and lousy she was, how his father would have put her in her place if he was there.. All this happened in few seconds and I really don’t like to be where street drama holds so I didn’t put so much meaning to it until I got home and a lot from that scene flashed through my memory . 

I began to wonder what my future father in-law was doing that could make or mar my dreams of building a home with the opposite sex. 

Was he beating up his wife right in front of my future husband? 

  • Does he find it reasonable and mature to not appreciate his wife? 
  • Does he tell his son he has no place in the kitchen even when his wife is sick? ​
  • Does he take his wife on dinner dates or even get her the little gifts just to show his son the need to appreciate his wife? 
  • Does he strive to work hard enough just so he’s son would want to be like him rather than choose a wreckless life? ​
  • Does he teach his son that women are to be respected and not used as items in a briefcase? ​
  • Does he teach his son to pray hard? 
  • Does he tell his son it’s enough to get drunk and demand for sex forcefully from his wife?​
     
  • How does he talk to his wife when she tries to chip in an idea? ​
  • Has he built a wall of confidence and self love around my future husband?
  • Does  his   father see the true essence of being legally married because most marriages are get an apartment and church wedding later and we ladies don’t get to wear our dream gowns because we are too blindly in love and see everything he says as right ​

I could go on and on and on with my fears because growing up I always dreamt of having a husband who will be caring and dedicated to being a great father and friend but with society today I get really scared. Most fathers forget they aren’t just training sons but also future husband and fathers and whether  we like it or not boys will learn to be men from the definition of men they got from their fathers. So now let’s all start praying that our Father inlaws are chasing those dreams and telling the hustle tales to their sons and that the sons caught in the wrong situations will try to fight to get better. See you in my next post. ​

Reminiscing 

So i was reminiscing about alot today and I felt really disappointed in myself for those times I would get so mad at God just because my parents didn’t get me something I wanted, I couldn’t go to certain places, I could not eat whatever I wanted when I wanted to, because my parents had quarrels and I just felt like OK my parents have started o and I would question why they are even my parents, times when I couldn’t pay for certain stuff at school because my parents will say it is a waste of money so I just concluded that they hated me and so on. Looking at these situations am like have I really suffered? Have I even been through anything at all? And the answer is no because if I felt bad during times like that it’s only because I let myself feel bad. I watched a video today and it opened my eyes to what suffering means truly. Suffering is being blind to the presence of God and hope and jumping into prostitution , suffering is being persecuted for loving God, it is watching someone you love being shattered to pieces, it is saying you love prostitution to a customer who leaves their home to find love at a brothel just because  you want to get paid, it is being on drugs just because you feel useless and don’t deserve any good  thing in life . 

We should really stop making a big deal out of the little problems we face and spend that energy on being better.. Stand up and stay positive, pray harder, believe in yourself, let God be the reason you dream of being great. 

Don’t spend so much at the club and when something bad happens you cry and curse God. How come you did not remember God when you were having fun?


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GET A PERSONAL DIARY 


Hello everyone, with all smiles because I am chowing Roasted corn at the moment (best mood),  I recently received a diary as a gift from my mom she’s probably hoping I would write something about having a boyfriend and all the corny things so she will would find it and send me to the convention but I have decided to show her that a diary can be used in a better way yunno💅💅 you are probably asking yourself  what else should I write apart from how Richard slyed me or how he told you he loved you or for my boys how Florence wore short skirt and her pants line was showing etc.. No that’s just piling negativity in a book. So here is what I think should be in a personal diary. 


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  • First of all decorate it to your taste, add stickers etc then first page introduce yourself to your diary not that you are crazy or something buy low key that’s about to be your personal caretaker and counselor. 
  • Write facts about yourself second page. 
  • Compliment yourself just like you compliment gold because believe it or not you are gold darling. 
  • Get a picture of your role model and your body goal remember you could be both. 
  • Write only your feel good songs. 
  • Now start it with the new month record each amazing day of the month whether it was terrible or felt like spoilt bread and tell yourself that everything happens for a reason but that doesn’t mean that you won’t acknowledge your mistakes and try to learn from it. 

  • Goals, long term plans and values you wish to build. 
  • Lastly create a space for those songs or movies or even books you come across and want to get just because they make you happy. Write them down. 


You could create your prayer, academic, exercise and diet routines  in the four middle pages of your diary. Make this book your laptop. Dream with it, be able to open it and be reminded of who you are , what you want to be in 5 years, what you want your CV to look like, what you have achieved and why you need to smile and always remember that you are Gold not silver not diamond GOLD. 

My CHEAPEST ACCESSORY 

 Dear readers I am typing this in a very chilled condition with thunder, freezing toes and shaking teeth. I hope you are in that condition too (just joking). Your girl is here to share with you her cheapest accessory. It’s an earing I have always wanted but never actually tried to find it until my friend gave a pair to me. 

This earing is probably sold over a thousand naira or two and she got it at hundred naira less than a dollar isn’t God a great Boo. Understanding the recession and still providing us with what we always want so the shine keeps going on. 

But sincerely I don’t mind the price tag on anything as long as it can serve its purpose and still keep my budget on check am good. So those of you using “its too cheap”  as an excuse not to buy an item you really like just because of what people will say or something darlings re-think. 

Dashiki on Denim

I really don’t know if that’s the best title for this post but then 😂😂😂

So I was playing dress up thanks to boredom I paired my Dashiki with my yellow denim that I do not know where I got it from.. I just really loved how the colours looked  . 

I went from feeling sad to sunshine mood at some point and I think the key to killing boredom my fellow ladies is playing dress up you need to try it. You might just realize you have too many clothes if they looked small ​to you. ​

Don’t forget to stay happy and fill your heart with colours.. 

Stay tuned

SLAYING THAT DENIM SKIRT

Hello sweethearts,how are you all doing? what’s popping ? 

Your babe is here with some amazing tips on how to roll tongues if you are going to step out of your house in a denim skirt.I REALLY love them because  it’s one of the most comfortable clothing item you’ll ever find.SO let’s see

There’s a huge red glow here and personally i think this will look amazing on the plus sized women especially if they are busty the top will just be perfect for them .This is an outfit you can wear to a friend’s birthday party and won’t lose your happy vibes.

Seeing this again am thinking lagos design and fashion week,GT BANK eat and drink and so on .First of all it will grant me the comfort i need ,i won’t go to such events and feel like a bag of cement is attached to my leg Mbanu!!!!

This look is specially for my instagram girls then attach two doughnuts and then snatch some edges and you are good to go

School girl,coolest kid in africa that’s what this outfit tells me.With this outfit it’s all about looking cute

To all my small chested ladies this is for us. For all those who thought nothing can look perfect on us i am sorry to disappoint you.But on a serious note this will be perfect church,the mall etc WARNING :IF YOU CAN’T STAND TWO HOURS OF AC LIKE ME BIKO TAKE A JACKET TO COVER YOUR LEGS OR COME OUT LOOKING LIKE COLDSTONE.

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